It wasn’t until my friendships started to fade (all at the same time), that I realized what a house of cards my self love really was. After spending most of my life deriving my self worth and love based on how many people loved me (and called me “best friend”), I had to really dig deep into myself to figure out who I was (more so, how wonderful I was) without others’ making me feel that way.

As I go through shedding my programming, I’m coming to learn how important it is to allow friendships to fade so the most aligned people can come into my life. I’m coming to learn how not only am I so lucky to have people love me, but people are also lucky to have my love. :)